Can you PLEASE help me write this after-interview "thank you" note?
Asked by MURF
Job interview today. It was the second one with the same company. This guy really grilled me on giving specific examples in past jobs. I did OK, but was at a loss for words a little a few times. I then apologized and said that I was a little nervous because I haven't been on very many interviews. He went into this whole thing and rambled on about how he could not understand someone being nervous around him, or at interviews, etc. It was like a 20 minute chastising on that subject alone! I was freakin mortified. I managed to get a grip toward the end and now I have to send a thank-you note. Should I mention this? And what the heck should I say?? Please help! I REALLY want this job.

Best Answer:
I WOULD mention it but spin the situation (see #4) . First, a couple of things to mention in your note before bringing up this situation. 1. Thank him for the opportunity to interview with his company and specifically his group. "This was a wonderful opportunity to meet with your COMPANY and specifically to talk with you/your team about the current position." 2. Tell him how you hope to contribute to the company. "I want to become a contributing team member." or "I want to grow inline with the company's commitments." or "I think this would be a great company to work for." 3. Just out right say that you want the job. "I would love to have this job." 4. ADDRESS the weird moment. Show this future employer that you're not interested in running away but addressing a problem when it arises. SPIN the situation into something positive. "I want to thank you for taking the time to make me more comfortable at my interview despite my nervousness and new experience in the interview process. From your details and explanation, I was able to learn some key things for future interviews. I truly hope to continue to learn from your mentorship, if I am given the opportunity to fill this position." 5. In your closing statement mention that you are looking forward to hearing back about the job either way. "I look forward to receiving news on the job position and hope to hear back from you soon."
I'm really good at interviews ;).
Answered by QotU

I think he was a bit nervous to be rambling on for 20 minutes. Don't mention it in the thank you note. Instead offer an answer for one of the questions that stumped you during the conversation. This may show that you were interested enough to follow up the question and find the answer. I've always tried to stump someone during an interview to see how they answer. Saying, "I don't know right now, but I'll find out." is a good, honest answer. Certainly better than B.S. Good luck.
Answered by mkbryan