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HI, is prostitution the way to go?
Asked by Saskia B
i am 21 have no job and my bf is unemployed.
i have a 1 yr old son. i dont know what to do, the only job i can really do is a hooker, do you think i should take up prostitution or not, i wanna do whats best for my kid :(
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To even consider being another one of those hookers spreading Aids to the world you must be mad.
I know that all forms of birth control are only 99% effective (some better then others) and accident do happen.
But really its best not to have a kid in a situation like this.
Talk to your parents (if they care at all you'd get some good advice).
Go to the job centre and enquire about what kind of benifits you and your bf are entitled to. (you'd be suprised how many there are).
But yes I agree with a post above.
There are plenty of jobs available in the UK for those who want to work.
If your boyfriend hasn't been in work for a very long time, its best to consider ditching him.
Even if he flips burger, its still money.
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No anythink is better then selling your body
Answered by ● кσσкѕ ●
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oh sure! its not like its illegal or anything
Answered by Ba12348
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u should be doing ok on benefits if you two are not working and have a kid, rent paid money in your pocket your probably better off than me! so tell you lazy work shy bf to go out and get a dam job
Answered by Tony M
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I think your kid would rather not have the best stuff and mum who isn't a hooker.
Answered by Philip H
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Get yourself to the unemployment agency and look for a legitimate job.
Also what business do you have making a baby you can't even take care of? There are 20+ methods of birth control and you have no excuse for getting pregnant. Get yourself to a clinic and get on something so you don't bring anymore kids into this world you can't afford.
Answered by kristen
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Why don't you find a bf who is employed or employable.
Answered by remowlms
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if you live in the united states there is always a job for someone even if you have to work at mcdonalds and tell you r lazy boyfriend to get a job to support the family first off start by dumping him and taking care of you kid.
Answered by jolin3762003
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No, you'll either end up with a nasty infection, end up beating beaten every night by some pimp or you'll end up dead. What would you be able to do for your kid then?
Answered by Gavin T
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No try & think positive a job will turn up & before you know it your son will be at school.Merry Christmas
Answered by Ollie
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if you really think becoming a prostitute in your opinion is in the best interest of your son, then the real best interest of your son would probably be to give him up
Answered by Great Gazoo
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How is it best for your kid if you end up beaten up, on drugs, disease ridden or dead? Sorry hun, but you are so much better than that. There must be jobs you can do? Get yourself down the Job Centre, any job will be better than being a hooker!
Answered by ducatigirlsam
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as long as you and your boyfriend are happy Why not !.But don't live to regret it.
Answered by DickyNowItAll
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Unfortunately in todays society, I would agree with you.
Just be careful, and do escorting via an agency. Check out a site called adultwork, and do your research first.
Answered by Mike D2
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No you shouldn't. You need to keep yourself healthy and safe so you can be a mum to you little boy. If you feel this is where your talents lie then why not be a sex chat line operator, you can make reasonable money doing that.
Answered by Enigmagic
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Are you mental or something?
You know what? You and your boyfriend are 2 shameless lazy bums. Go out there and get a proper job! Work! Where is your self-esteem lady? You gonna start respecting yourself! You are as good as anybody else in this world, you can do everything you want. Go to the coucil, check the courses they have available. There are so many ways! But you have to take the first step. You CAN do it!
Answered by hur_islam
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no there are jobs out there just keep looking and something will come of it maybe your bf could try a bit harder and you would have time for your daughter good luck hun x
Answered by GARY F
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how is that whats best for your kid??? you and your bf need to try harder to get any job going. go to the employment office etc. and why cant you get benefits?
Answered by Hayley N
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no no and no, it is NOT best for your kid, you can get a better job than that, just believe in yourself that you can do better than this, and having that job is one of the ways you can get an infection.
Please do not do this job, think of your family
Answered by angel
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If you want to sell your body be a stripper it safer and you son's mommy won't go to jail for it, Or go apply to walmart target or freds somewhere or even mcdonalds. Don't be picky it money. good luck.
i would tell your bf to get a job to!
Answered by Hey Y'all
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No, get your bf out working. There are lots of jobs out there.
Answered by PGG101
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I cant believe a mother is even asking a q's like this , man!
theres plenty of legit work , even if it means getting your hands a bit dirty!
Answered by Pawel K
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There is no need for you to prostitue yourself when there are jobs at Macdonalds, Argos, Sainsburys, Asda, Tesco, Coffee Shops. Also try your local hospital, the NHS (eventhough crap in other areas) is very child friendly and flexible. The list is endless.
Working in a supermarket is better because you can get discount off of your food, which is what helped for me and my son.
And furthermore, why cant your boyfriend find a job?? Why do you have to support all 3 of you?
Answered by buff1ne
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How can you even contemplate such a thing?! Surely there are other jobs you can do? I'm sure everyone would agree that anything is better than this.
Prostitution is cheap and nasty - don't do it. You'd probably regret it and may end up with severe mental problems.
Answered by cosmicmoon
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First try your best in social friendly work.... if you have no other option then always remember four words AIDS...
Answered by pritamgola
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LOL!
Answered by Georgie
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NO! Prostitution is not best for your kid, or for you! Don't even think about this as any sort of 'career move'! I hope to god that your boyfriend isn't endorsing / encouraging or suggesting you do this! Best thing is to get you AND YOUR BOYFRIEND to citizens advice or employment agency to see what help you can get finding legal, safe work that isn't going to kill you eventually!
Good luck to you and take care of yourself.
Answered by Rebecca
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No but if you have 149.00 right now or can scrape it up somehow...you can become a Pure Romance consultant. that is what i do (sell sex toys and do in home parties for women...you get training as well) and it brings in soooo much money. FOR REAL. dont lower your standards like that, you are a lady and a mother....do you want to be killed out there on the streets? im sure you will get alot of bad responses to this but please dont give up hope. You can start your own business with this company and I started out on food stamps, medical card, you name it i was on it....not good. now i own my own place and nice car and ive only been in it for a year. TRUST ME even if your not interested in this or dont have the money (the 149 sale ends Dec 30th) there is many other options...go to your welfare place and sign up and find a job. if your b/f is unemployed he can watch your child while your at work. if you do decide to become a consultant (all over the US so dont worry you can do it where your at) you will get your money right back from that starter kit on your first party which will be in like 2 weeks or less if you get on the ball. i will also help train you online if your not close to me. SERIOUSLY this is an amazing business. If you want to check to see if its legit im sure you can contact the Better Business Bureau to find out any info on it. Its not my own business I own my own company through them and they distribute the products to me...you would be an independant consultant. everything is tax deductible as well. we have all the info you will need about that. you obviously have access to a computer and thats all that is needed to start (plus the money). Like i said please feel free to contact the BBB to find out if its legit (which it deffinately is) and also get any reports you can on it so you know that it is a great company. All reports are free with the BBB and you can do it on the phone or im sure online...ive actually never done it so i dont know for sure, but i do know they are free. but here is my website and normally i dont just throw this out there like that but i sooo know how you feel TRUST ME. ive been there and im also a mother...you would almost resort to anything to feed your child and yourself.
http://www.nicolekinman.pureromance.com
or email me at
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Answered by angel *♥*
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definitely not. there are plenty of jobs out there for you or your boyfriend, especially at this time of year. Also there are plenty of training courses available. If you're both unemployed you should be entitled to benefits until one of you finds a job. there are plenty of options out there - you don't need to sell your soul to the devil
Answered by Water Lizard
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I'm not trying to sound harsh but you must have absolutely no respect for yourself in order to do such a thing, and if you have a bf and he's cool with you doing something like that, than there's something shady going on, tell him to get off his ass and help you McDonald's, temp agencies, anything would be better than doing that, seek out all of your options, you're not the first nor the last person to have to push forward with a child, but you CAN do it just believe in yourself.
Answered by Nina
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Do you really think your son would be proud to have a mother who is a prostitute?
Even if you or your boyfriend have no skills or qualifications there are still plenty of jobs you can do - work in a fast food restaurant, work as a cleaner, work in a warehouse or get an apprenticeship.
You ought to have a bit more self respect, in what world is being a prostitute the best option for a mother - don't you remember when all those Ipswich prostitutes got murdered? That is easily the most dangerous job you can do.
If you truly want to do what's best for your son then i suggest you or your boyfriend try to get an apprenticeship.
Answered by Mrs I
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Well its most certainly the way to go if you want to get a close and regular view of your local A &E Hospital.
Answered by JOHN R
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Don't be stupid. (Or is this a "tongue in cheek" question?)
I think you should tell your boyfriend to get off his lazy backside and get a job to support you. You should tell him that he should accept anything. It's about time he learnt to be a man.
Failing that, give him the boot, get yourself some training and qualifications, and find a job for yourself. This won't happen overnight; it could take a few years, depending on what job you want, and you may want to wait until your child is at school before starting work.
Don't despair: it will happen for you if you really want it to. Put some plans together, and go for it girl.
Good luck, and I hope it all works out well for you.
Answered by The Oracle
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prostitution is the last grasp of people removed from normal society crack whores ect. you've already got an added bonus for the work environment your already a mum you could consider child minding.
Answered by givethegiftofarsemagicthisxmas
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dont do it. its not the answer its not good for your health or mental state and it wont be good for your child. go to the jobcentre and find out what benefits you are entitled to do it will help. im 20, unemployed caring for my partner who is also unemployed due to illness and we are expecting our first baby in feb. we get income support because we cant work,materntiy grant, disability allowance because of my partner and will get child benefit when the baby comes and we are fine. if you and your bf are able to work but dont you can get jobseekers allowance, also you should get child bennefit for your child and should be able to get milk tokens.
Answered by Sarah
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